Pre-Divorce Checklist: What to Do Before You File in Texas (2025)

The months leading up to a divorce are often filled with uncertainty — both emotional and financial. Having a pre-divorce checklist can help you stay organized, protect your rights, and avoid costly mistakes. This guide covers exactly what to do before filing for divorce in Texas so you start the process prepared.

Step 1 – Gather Financial Records

You will want to collect copies of various financial records such as: Bank statements that go back at least 12 months, tax returns for the preceding 3 years, pay stubs from work, any mortgage or loan documentation, and retirement account statements.

Step 2 – Inventory Assets & Debts

You will need to make a list of all the things you own or owe currently. That could be property such as real estate, vehicles, investments like stock or businesses you have a stake in, credit cards, and loans.

Step 3 – Protect Important Documents

Try to keep your important documents in a secure and safe space, this includes original and certified documents such as birth certificates, social security cards, passports, and your marriage license.

Step 4 – Consider Your Living Arrangements

Take great care in deciding whether you will remain in the marital home during the future divorce process. Things to consider are firstly, will you be staying with your spouse, soon to be ex-spouse, during the process? Will the children? If not, why not, and where will you go? Is it affordable?

Step 5 – Plan for Children

 You will need to gather information for them as well. This includes records such as medical and school. Write down their activity schedules.

Step 6 – Consult a Texas Divorce Attorney

Finally, consult with an Attorney to advise you of your specific rights and obligations. Many family law offices take divorce cases. These law offices understand that discretion is paramount and will always keep your privacy and interests as a priority. When scheduling a consultation consider where your spouse or children will be. Many law offices will not allow children into the attorney’s office above a certain age. Here at the Mendez Law Office we provide a safe and engaging environment with supervision, while you are discussing your future divorce.

Remember getting legal advice before filing for divorce can save you time and protect your interests. Call the Mendez Law Group today or book now for a confidential consultation.